
This is something I had forgotten as an adult-but there’s the anxiety of the long period where you have a wiggly tooth and you’re waiting for it to come out. Losing a tooth can be quite scary, especially for younger children. The tooth fairy myth offers comfort during this strange and uncomfortable time, and provides magic and even meaning for children in a developmentally appropriate way. We think she is Lucinda in Ella Enchanted and we think she will come back for the tooth she absent-mindedly left behind last night.” We talk about Lucinda’s antics endearingly. Last night she took only 1 of the 2 teeth under the pillow but left a few gold coins.

Sometimes she’d lose her way and may take a few days to get here sometimes she’d leave a coin but forgets to take the tooth. She’s a good fairy, but she’s a bit absent-minded, as fairies tend to be. Nowadays they ask why the tooth fairy doesn’t come to our house.” That’s what I’ve been doing with my kids. You sing a song for the mouse to take your tooth and bring you a nice, shiny one instead and throw it on the roof. and there’s no tooth fairy where I come from. Here are a couple stories shared with me in a Facebook group of fun tooth fairy experiences: Some report the Tooth Fairy showing up in print as far back as 1927, and perhaps as far back as the beginning of human history.Įvery recorded human culture has some kind of tradition surrounding the disposal of a child’s lost baby teeth. Perhaps that explains why the origins of the tooth fairy extend hundreds of years back. Isn’t it lying? And isn’t it a bizarre thing to be exchanging old body parts for money?īut the more I learned, the more I realized that the tooth fairy is actually a crucial part of a child’s development during what can be a scary time. I’ll be honest…Even though I had happy memories of this mystical experience from childhood, I questioned whether I wanted to carry on the tradition with my child. The tooth fairy visits while the child sleeps, taking the tooth and exchanging it with a coin, a note or receipt, or a few dollars.

The developmental impact of the tooth fairy traditionįirst, a child loses a baby tooth and places it under their pillow or on their nightstand.

Personally, I was devastated when I learned that Santa Claus, the Easter bunny, and the tooth fairy weren’t real at the ripe old age of 10 (I know, I know). As I prepare to carry on the tradition with my own daughter, I wanted to find out-what’s changed? What hasn’t? What does playing the tooth fairy for my child look like in 2019?Īnd, to be honest, I had some reservations about “lying” to our daughter. This magical visitor warned me to be more careful next time, as it was quite the ordeal for her and she had many other children to visit that night.īut this was all over 30 years ago. The next morning, I woke up to a hand-written note explaining that she had flown down my mouth to retrieve the tooth. Yet, lo and behold, that night, she did come. My parents acted disappointed along with me. I was devastated that the tooth fairy wouldn’t be able to come. When I was seven years old, I accidentally swallowed a loose tooth during a baseball game. Perhaps having a father as a dentist will do that. The tooth fairy remains one of my most vivid memories from childhood.
